Born in the mountainous region of Xieng Kouang, Laos, Mai Vang grew up surrounded by war and resilience. Her mother, Yer Yang, worked tirelessly on the farm while raising the family, and her father, Nka Ze Vang, served as a soldier during a time of great conflict.
During the Secret War, at just 25 years old, she and her family fled to Thailand in search of safety. They found temporary refuge at Ban Vinai Refugee Camp, where life was uncertain but filled with hope. It was there that she raised her children while waiting for a better future.
In August 1984, she arrived in the United States, sponsored by a church that helped her family begin a new chapter in California. After three years, they eventually settled in Madison, Wisconsin, where she has built a quiet life surrounded by her children and grandchildren. Now living with her son, daughter--in-law, and grandkids, she finds peace in simple joys. One of her greatest passions is creating paj ntaub. Stitch by stitch, she pours her memories, culture, and resilience into each piece. It helps her cope with the pain of losing her husband and navigate ongoing family struggles.
She attends the Southeast Asian Healing Center where she finds support, companionship, and guidance from peers and a dedicated caseworker. Despite life’s hardships, she continues to find strength in community, tradition, and the love of her family.